WHAT WORDS CAN DO - LEE

One said, "To control your tongue is to control your life". I myself suffer quite lot of times due to my 'spit-out-of-my-mouth' words. I didn't think what would happen because of my thoughtless words. Now I strongly feel that one word can change one's life. It may be tiny or great extent still it brings change to one's life. After all, theses experiences changed my way of talking and obviously that brought a huge change in my life. What I feel is that human mind is extremly confusing to understand. And I assume that by small misunderstanding between people will bring great variations of deductions in their mind. To convey your meaning clearly to others, it is necessary to specify and be truthful.

Once you are considered as 'trustworthy', you will get a power to persuade your thought to others. Everyone might have such experiences. When one who's really reliable(may be your parents, close friends or whatever) speaks to you regarding a matter you find doubtful, you feel that the one is right and you better follow it.
To specify your message helps others to understand your thought clearly and vividly. There lies a great turmoil to understand one abstract word. Especially in chinese language, some of the great scholars describe one letter to express their thoughts. But from which thousands of different interpretations are derived. People need to know quite lot of information in order to form their deductions. Hence when you need to convey your message, you should provide all required information to them. It is not needed when you write any poems or literature. That is the part where you should make readers to think over and over again.

For better social interactions, we do not need to know human's psychology. Just be yourself, follow your intuition, be clear and be truthful. I believe most of the problems will be solved.

Thank you.