Why do we sing when it's time to recite
Why do we remain silent when it's time to shout
Why do we run when it's time to slow down
Why do we fight when there is peace
Why do we long for something which we cannot have
Why do we cry for something that's not worth crying over
Why do we pretend to laugh when it hurts badly inside
Why do we regret when nothing can be solved out anymore
Why do we love living life in a twisted way
And why does the word 'Why' need to be used every time
WHY??
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
Monday, January 4, 2010
STEREOTYPING WON'T END
I have had encountered many bad experiences. Once i went out at 8.30 pm just near my house to fetch some needs from the shop. An unknown guy on a bike came to me asking me the way and i gave him the direction. After when I thought that he would go away, he came near me and pulled me on my hand. Luckily my sisters and friend came with a scooter and the guy ran off. After that incident, i believed that every mainstream guys are such desperate people when it comes to girls.
Another incident where one Mallu guy called me up on my phone and insulted me so bad, telling me that my accent was funny. I never knew where he got my number from and from that moment on, i started hating the Mallus like anything.
Once, a colleague of mine told me that the Kannada people doesn't have brains since he has often seen them getting into trouble for no proper reason.
I remember a cousin of mine telling me that her friend believes that all chinky girls can sleep with any men if it's for the sake of money.
I've heard many people saying that Africans are dirty and not to be trusted.
We Indians like to talk about the English people for their prejudices and we have the mindset that every Englishman would be arrogant and stiff due to the impact of colonialism.
There are many experiences which cannot be fully mentioned in this post. Anyway, it is important to know that we tend to generalize the whole community just because of the fault of one or two people who left a bad impression on others. Will this stop? The answer is 'NO'. As long as the earth keeps on revolving, stereotyping will not stop. However, let us remember that while there are many bad people, there are also many good people and it is not the wisest thing to keep on generalizing certain communities. And this is what i am also still learning.
Another incident where one Mallu guy called me up on my phone and insulted me so bad, telling me that my accent was funny. I never knew where he got my number from and from that moment on, i started hating the Mallus like anything.
Once, a colleague of mine told me that the Kannada people doesn't have brains since he has often seen them getting into trouble for no proper reason.
I remember a cousin of mine telling me that her friend believes that all chinky girls can sleep with any men if it's for the sake of money.
I've heard many people saying that Africans are dirty and not to be trusted.
We Indians like to talk about the English people for their prejudices and we have the mindset that every Englishman would be arrogant and stiff due to the impact of colonialism.
There are many experiences which cannot be fully mentioned in this post. Anyway, it is important to know that we tend to generalize the whole community just because of the fault of one or two people who left a bad impression on others. Will this stop? The answer is 'NO'. As long as the earth keeps on revolving, stereotyping will not stop. However, let us remember that while there are many bad people, there are also many good people and it is not the wisest thing to keep on generalizing certain communities. And this is what i am also still learning.
Sunday, December 20, 2009
WHAT WORDS CAN DO - LEE
One said, "To control your tongue is to control your life". I myself suffer quite lot of times due to my 'spit-out-of-my-mouth' words. I didn't think what would happen because of my thoughtless words. Now I strongly feel that one word can change one's life. It may be tiny or great extent still it brings change to one's life. After all, theses experiences changed my way of talking and obviously that brought a huge change in my life. What I feel is that human mind is extremly confusing to understand. And I assume that by small misunderstanding between people will bring great variations of deductions in their mind. To convey your meaning clearly to others, it is necessary to specify and be truthful.
Once you are considered as 'trustworthy', you will get a power to persuade your thought to others. Everyone might have such experiences. When one who's really reliable(may be your parents, close friends or whatever) speaks to you regarding a matter you find doubtful, you feel that the one is right and you better follow it.
To specify your message helps others to understand your thought clearly and vividly. There lies a great turmoil to understand one abstract word. Especially in chinese language, some of the great scholars describe one letter to express their thoughts. But from which thousands of different interpretations are derived. People need to know quite lot of information in order to form their deductions. Hence when you need to convey your message, you should provide all required information to them. It is not needed when you write any poems or literature. That is the part where you should make readers to think over and over again.
For better social interactions, we do not need to know human's psychology. Just be yourself, follow your intuition, be clear and be truthful. I believe most of the problems will be solved.
Thank you.
Once you are considered as 'trustworthy', you will get a power to persuade your thought to others. Everyone might have such experiences. When one who's really reliable(may be your parents, close friends or whatever) speaks to you regarding a matter you find doubtful, you feel that the one is right and you better follow it.
To specify your message helps others to understand your thought clearly and vividly. There lies a great turmoil to understand one abstract word. Especially in chinese language, some of the great scholars describe one letter to express their thoughts. But from which thousands of different interpretations are derived. People need to know quite lot of information in order to form their deductions. Hence when you need to convey your message, you should provide all required information to them. It is not needed when you write any poems or literature. That is the part where you should make readers to think over and over again.
For better social interactions, we do not need to know human's psychology. Just be yourself, follow your intuition, be clear and be truthful. I believe most of the problems will be solved.
Thank you.
Friday, December 18, 2009
First time
First time, I started my blog in blog spot.
Further, I am going to write about many controversial issues and poems.
I shall try to get you the best writings of mine and please keep me motivated with your encouragements.
Thank you.
Further, I am going to write about many controversial issues and poems.
I shall try to get you the best writings of mine and please keep me motivated with your encouragements.
Thank you.
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